3/21/2024 0 Comments Kink crate yes no maybe checklist![]() For some couples, these revelations constitute a crisis.īut luckily for you, I have learned a lot from my clients about how to deal with this – what works and what doesn’t. For example, it’s not easy to hear that our partner likes to be humiliated or conversely to inflict pain It’s not easy to share that you like age-play or get turned on by seeing your partner with another person. And sometimes this coming out process can be rough. It can be scary to reveal our authentic sexual selves to another person, even when we are relatively sure that that person cares about us. Unless you, either by chance or design, found your kinky love match early on, it’s not uncommon for couples to discover this difference years later into the relationship. Having worked with countless couples with this issue, I have learned a lot about how to successfully navigate this difference resulting in many happy outcomes. And while that doesn’t surprise me, that hasn’t been my experience. And about how threatening those big ones can feel to the couple bond.Ī client recently shared with me that within the kink community it is believed that these kinds of “mixed” relationships (where one person is kinky & one person is not) rarely survive. ![]() About how all differences are not created equal. ![]() I’ve been thinking a lot about differences lately. These are the kinds of differences that often rise to the level of deal breaker in a relationship. You know what I’m talking about: Whether or not to have children parenting styles political & religious differences messy versus sloppy (believe me, this is BIG). Few things are as difficult for a couple to navigate as those big fundamental differences.
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